The big sick is so much more than a romantic comedy since it neatly wrapped hell lots of dramatic conflicts within the context. Romance vs. Betrayal, significant others and personal pursuit vs. family traditions, the dominant American liberty-advocated culture vs. the traditional and stringent ethics of a immigrant family, the puny human bings vs. the big sick and compromise vs. redemption. Those conflicts are everywhere and the large parts of lives. However this movie is not simply to reveal how cruel the reality is but to show what the cps react when they are in the conflicts. We therefore can see the happy ending with the redemptions. "I'm moving to New York to pursue stand-up, but I am not leaving this family" the son said after being kicked out of his family by his mother. His father gave him his favorite food——modern biryani (a nice metaphor implies the modernized tradition)homemade by his mother. And finally his beloved ex came to his show in NY.